Key To A Happy Marriage
Most couples cannot figure out what type of attitude affects their mutual relationship negatively. There are times when you want to express something but you just fail in expressing it. Many marriages could be saved if spouses improve their ways of communication with each other. Good communication is the key to a happy marriage.
Raising your voice during stress is a common problem with everyone. Yelling becomes a quick response to any discussion and later it causes more trouble than relief. You may feel released for a minute or two but later it becomes more disturbing and irritating. Once spoken in an angry state of mind, you cannot take back your words. You hurt your partner with your words and cause emotional pain and distress.
And then both husband and wife hesitate to discuss anything. You delay your discussions and avoid sensitive and touchy topics. In this situation, communication in your relationship freezes. Try to think and understand things through each other’s perspective and make mutual satisfying plans.
Better communication in relationships is a function of emotional connection and love. When people feel connected, they communicate fine, and when they feel disconnected they communicate poorly, regardless of their choice of words and communication techniques.
The problem is that we do not just communicate but we only argue. It is not important who is right or who is wrong in an argument but solving a problem through a compromise is more important than being right or wrong. Forget about all techniques and try to feel connected right now. If you do feel connected from inside your heart, you will have a reasonable chance of your partner reciprocating. You will then communicate better. More importantly, you will move closer to recreating a love beyond words.